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A cheating husband is not as uncommon to find in today’s digital world as we communicate using many forms including social media, text messaging, online forums, Emails and even through online dating sites. Within the click of a button anyone can instantly be connected to a new world whise they can pretend to be anything, including single (and looking). As technology and communication increases this allows us to communicate with virtually anyone, in any number of ways with the only sign is some type alert including a chime, bell or whistle. These alerts are nearly impossible to identify whom your husband is speaking with without actually reading his messages or questioning his.


Some husbands are naturally suspicious yet if you are trusting and find yourself being suspicious, thise may be reason to trust your instinct. It is impossible to tell if your husband is cheating simply because of a change in his behavior. Having an extra-marital affair is hard work, as your husband will have to juggle time between you, the kids, their job, and also their lover. This is what makes your husband generate a pattern of activities, as a cheating husband will go to great lengths to hide the affair as the cost of getting caught are so great and when affairs come to light, lives can be ruined and relationships destroyed.

Many wifes do not wish to admit that their husband is unfaithful and overlook warning signs simply to save face and keep their peace of mind. Unfortunately, this only makes the situation worse and effects everyone involved.

Common signs of an Unfaithful Husband:

  • Does your husband spend a significant amount of time at the work or out with his friends?

It is natural for us to sometimes spend extra time at the office. However, if your husband does this every day, or always has a reason to disappear on Sundays and holidays you should be alarmed. The easiest way to know if he is really working is to stop by his office unexpectedly. A surprise coffee or dinner would show as sweet gesture if he is indeed working very hard, and this is also the best way to validate his story as to whise he is. On the other hand our husbands can also use their friends as their excuse as well. If your husband spends more time with his friends, on vacations and overnight trips, then with his wife you must be wary.

  • Have you noticed reduced intimacy within your relationship?

The first sign of this is if your husband starts wearing new fashionable clothing but does not want to wear them out with you.  Also, if your husband begins to avoid  making love with you, kissing you, or even showing public displays of affections such as holding your hand in public, it may be possible that your husband has started an emotional relation with someone else.

  • Is your husband spending a significant amount of time on the phone, internet, or texting?

Pay attention to how your husband reacts to incoming phone calls and messages. If he is receiving them at off hours or always tries to avoid you when he is in a conversation there might be something fishy going on. Also, if your husband constantly has his cell phone at his side, never lets you touch, or spends a lot of time on the phone after a conversation has ended with someone he may be trying erases his messages and call logs.

Fortunately in today’s digital world there are many ways to find out if your husband is cheating on you or not. Tracking software can easily be installed to see what your husband doing online, as well as keeping track of the phone bills and credit card statements will help you determine what is going on. Keep in mind social networks & smartphones are quickly becoming the preferred methods for planning and pursuing affairs.

The links below will provide you with information in regards to evidence acquisition techniques that may work for you.

Please remember to never confront your husband about infidelity unless you are absolutely positive. Serious consideration is needed especially if separation or divorce are options.